Sex Toy Selection Guide for Postpartum Women

Sex Toy Selection Guide for Postpartum Women

After childbirth, women undergo tremendous physical and psychological changes. During this stage, rebuilding self-confidence, restoring intimacy, and regaining the pleasure of sex are crucial for many new mothers.

As a sex toy store, we're dedicated to helping postpartum women find the right sex toys for them to meet their specific needs and concerns. This article will provide a comprehensive sex toy selection guide for postpartum women.


Postpartum women's body changes

1. Pelvic floor muscle relaxation

After giving birth, a woman's pelvic floor muscles become loose, which can lead to reduced sexual desire and difficulty achieving orgasm. The health of your pelvic floor muscles is crucial to restoring pleasure during sex.


2. Vaginal dryness

Postpartum changes in hormone levels may cause vaginal dryness, making sex uncomfortable or painful. Proper lubrication and gentle sex toys can help alleviate these discomforts.


3. Fatigue and stress

The stress and sleep deprivation of caring for a newborn can affect libido and sexual satisfaction. Sex toys can play an important role in helping new moms relax and enjoy some private time.


Things to note when choosing toys

1. Safe materials

A woman’s body needs extra gentle treatment after giving birth. Choose sex toys made from safe, non-toxic materials such as medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic and stainless steel.


2. Size and shape

Choosing sex toys that are smaller and simple in shape in the initial stage can help women gradually adapt to and rediscover their bodies.


3. Adjustable intensity

Sex toys with adjustable strength can be adjusted according to personal comfort, providing a gentle and pleasurable experience.


4. Silent design

Quietly designed sex toys not only provide privacy, but also won’t cause disturbance when there is a baby at home.


Recommended sex toy types

1. Kegel Balls

Kegel Balls are an ideal choice to help restore the strength and elasticity of the pelvic floor muscles. Regular use can improve sexual desire and the quality of your orgasms.

Instructions for use: Use for 15-20 minutes daily and exercise according to the exercise guidelines.


2. Massager

The massage stick can be used for body massage, especially the back, shoulders and neck areas, to help relieve fatigue and stress after childbirth. At the same time, it can also be used to stimulate the vulva and clitoris to help women regain sexual pleasure.


Recommended Products:

Youngwill Powerful AV Massage Wand Vibrator

Features: Multiple vibration modes, strong and long-lasting battery life, strong head vibration, and no vibration on the handle.
Material: Medical grade silicone.
Usage Guide: Choose the vibration mode that suits you and use it to massage and stimulate different parts of the body.


3. Mini vibrator

Mini Vibrators are small in size and easy to carry, and are suitable for postpartum women who are using sex toys for the first time. They provide gentle vulvar and clitoral stimulation, helping women gradually regain sexual pleasure.


Recommended Products:

Youngwill-Finger Buckle Egg Vibrator

Features: Small and portable, strong vibration, silent design.
Material: Medical grade silicone.
Instructions for use: Can be used in the shower or bath for an all-around pleasurable experience.


4. G-spot stimulator

G-spot Vibrators are designed specifically to stimulate women's G-spot, helping women rediscover and enjoy orgasm after childbirth.


Recommended Products:

Youngwill Simple Powerful G-Spot Vibrator

Features: Ergonomic design, multiple vibration modes, silent and powerful.
Material: Medical grade silicone.
Instructions for use: Before use, it is recommended to use lubricant, select a suitable vibration mode, and slowly explore the G-spot area.


5. Wearable Vibrator

Wearable Vibrators can not only be used for private time, but can also be used in daily activities to add fun and stimulation.


Recommended Products:

Youngwill Wireless Remote Control Wearable Panty Vibrator

Features: Adjustable, suitable for different body types, intelligent control.
Material: Medical grade silicone.
Instructions for use: It can be worn in daily activities and controlled remotely through the remote control to add fun to life.


How to choose the right lubricant?

Women may experience vaginal dryness after giving birth, and choosing the right lubricant can greatly enhance the experience of using sex toys.

Water based lubricant

Water-based Lubricants are the most common and safe choice, suitable for all kinds of sex toys and will not damage the silicone material.

Recommended Products:
Youngwill-240ml Water Based Lubricant

Features: Fragrance-free, colorless, harmless, suitable for sensitive skin.
Instructions for use: Apply an appropriate amount before using sex toys to increase lubrication.

Use and care of sex toys

1. Preparation before use

Cleaning: Clean sex toys thoroughly before and after each use. Wash with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap, or use a special sex toy cleaner.
Lubrication: Choose the appropriate lubricant according to the toy material to ensure comfort and smoothness during use.

2. Precautions during use

Take your time: Especially when using sex toys for the first time after giving birth, take your time and gradually adapt. Choose a gentle vibration mode and gradually increase the intensity.
Listen to your body: Pay attention to your body's reaction at all times. If you feel discomfort or pain, stop using it immediately and make adjustments.

3. Maintenance and storage

Cleaning and Disinfection: Clean immediately after use and make sure to dry thoroughly before storing.
Storage: Store sex toys in a dry, cool place out of direct sunlight. It is recommended to use special storage bags or boxes to avoid direct contact between toys of different materials.

Postpartum women’s psychological concerns

1. Re-establish self-confidence

After giving birth, many women have concerns about body image and sexual attractiveness. Sex toys can help women regain their confidence and rediscover pleasure and satisfaction by exploring their bodies.

2. Communication and intimacy between husband and wife

Using sex toys is not only a personal pleasure experience, but can also be used as a tool for couples to re-establish intimacy. Through joint exploration and use of sex toys, we can enhance mutual communication and understanding and regain the pleasure of sexual life.

3. Focus on self-care

Postpartum women often devote most of their energy to caring for their newborns and tend to neglect their own needs. Using sex toys is a sign of self-care and helps women find their own moments of relaxation in their busy lives.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How soon after giving birth can I start using sex toys?

Each woman's recovery time is different, and it is generally recommended to get your doctor's permission before starting to use sex toys after a postpartum checkup 6 weeks after delivery. Make sure your body is recovering well to avoid discomfort or injury from premature use.

2. Do sex toys affect breastfeeding?

Sex toys themselves do not affect breastfeeding. But make sure the lubricants and cleansers you use are safe and harmless and will not affect breast milk through skin contact.

3. How to communicate with your partner about your need to use sex toys?

Open communication is key. In a relaxed atmosphere, you can share your interests and expectations for sex toys with your partner, discuss each other's needs and boundaries, select and use sex toys together, and enhance intimacy.


4. Do I need a special sex toy cleaner?

While warm water and mild soap can clean most sex toys, dedicated sex toy cleaners are generally safer and more effective, especially for toys made of silicone and other specialty materials.

5. When choosing a toy, how do you determine whether it is suitable for you?

Understanding your body's needs and preferences is key. You can start with sex toys that are small and simple in function, and gradually try toys of different types and functions to find the style that suits you best.


Postpartum is a special stage in a woman's life when she undergoes tremendous physical and psychological changes. Choosing the right sex toys not only helps the body recover, but also helps women regain sexual pleasure and confidence. As a sex toy store, we are committed to providing postpartum women with safe, comfortable and high-quality sex toys to help them find their own pleasure and satisfaction in the new stage of life.

Whether it is a pelvic floor muscle exercise ball, massage stick, compact vibrator, G-spot stimulator or wearable vibrator, we hope that every postpartum woman can enjoy a healthy and enjoyable sex life through suitable sex toys. If you have any questions or need more advice, please feel free to contact our customer service team and we will be happy to help and support you.

Let us start a healthy and happy postpartum life journey together.

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